In Memory of Jason Holley

It is with great sorrow that we learn of the untimely death of Jason Holly (pictured at right). We pray that for Jason’s mother, Jan, and his immediate family and friends, this will be the close of a horror story and the beginning of a process of finding peace.

Since we first learned of Jason going missing, all of us hoped for the best and tried to do what we could to aid in his safe return. Regrettably, our worst fears have been realized.

As many of you know, Jason was 22 years old, and he was XXY. The medical literature tells us that persons with the conditions KS&A serves often have an uncommonly gentle nature and quiet demeanor, others are slower to mature, and still others have more limited executive functioning. As in this case, these traits can increase the chances of being drawn into situations fraught with danger. It is my hope that we can use this senseless loss to help those of us who survive Jason to better protect others in our community who are at heightened risk. And in this way, to offer a lasting tribute to his life.

I wish that all of us were together to share a group hug. It is times like this that I feel closer together, and more in need of the community we strive to create through this organization. With deep sorrow, I offer KS&A’s condolences on this terrible loss. Provided below is an opportunity for you to add your own comments for Jason’s family and friends, and for other members of our extended family.

– Robert Shelton, KS&A Chairman (May 12, 2009)

Jan,

Words cannot express the sorrow that I feel for you. I will keep you and your family in my heart and in my prayers.

May God bless you,

Cathy

Cathy Marshall | May 2009 | San Diego, CA
My heart is breaking for you and your family in the loss of your sweet young man. No parent should have to suffer as I am sure you are now. My deepest condolences.
Brenda,Bill, and Jim

Brenda Keeter | May 2009 | Titusville, FL
What a tragic loss - my heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.

Beth Hill | May 2009 | Foxboro, MA
Jan,

Remember how much of a blessing your son, Jason,was to you. He will always remain in your heart, and he knows that.
May God give you and your family the strength you all need during this time. May he give you peace, in time. That is what I pray for you.

May God be with you,
Pam

Pam F. | May 2009 | Pennsylvania
Jan,

I am so sorry to hear this news. My heart breaks with our loss of Jason. His kind gentle spirit lives on in our aching hearts.

I am hoping that your fond memories of the joy he brought to you will warm your heart during this very difficult time. My heart and prayers are with you and your family.

Doreen

Doreen Fulton | May 2009 | Fairfax Station, VA
We all know how special our sons are, and we grieve your loss with you. May God give you strength and comfort in the coming days, and the knowledge that Jason is safe and at peace.

Cliff & Cheryl Aisthorpe | May 2009 | Wilmington, NC
I am so very sorry about Jason. My heart aches for you .

Joy

Joy Farley | May 2009 | Dayton, Ohio
Jan,
On behalf of all the families at the XXYY Project, I want to express our sincere condolences. All of our families know about Jason and have been sending you their love.

And from me personally - please know that we will help to ensure Jason is not forgotten and that something positive comes from all fo this.

Renee, XXYY Project Chair | May 2009 | Colorado
I am so sorry for your loss. It is just horrible. I hope you find some comfort in at least having him back even though it is not the way we all wished.

Marie | May 2009 | Thornton, CO
Jan and family,

I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your loss.
Jason’s kind and gentle spirit will remain alive in your heart and memories forever.
You will be in my prayers. May you find comfort in knowing that Jason is at peace and forever safe.

Tammy | May 2009 | Illinois

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